i wish more people said that being single is normal
and you’re not going to meet and marry someone
and that’s fine
and if marriage happens, it happens. and it’s not the next big ticket to check off in life’s checklist
because not everyone meets someone they want to marry. and that’s normal
you’re not broken or unfulfilled if you are single
Fuck all of those stupid “life checklist” “that’s just what you’re supposed to do” things. Seriously. Fuck em. Anyone who insists that you HAVE to do anything just because it’s JUST WUT U DO is just sad that they let themselves fall into that peer pressure.
If I listened to my mother with every dumb thing she screamed at me about because THAT’S JUST WHAT YOU DO, I’d be a too young mother, dead-broke, with a miserable job I hated and endless piles of debt.